Authenticity: A Simple Lesson
In 1991 I pioneered ergonomics and in 1996 I launched one of the first ergonomic product websites which I sold in 2008. I sold it because after 17 years in that business it was time to be authentic in a new area.
(Oh in case you are wondering, the ergonmics website I created is www.ergopro.com. Tell them I said hello!)
I realize that a part of me always thought that to be fully authentic I had to do everything on my own. Of course that is not the case. Authenticity develops on the inside and only recently did I begin understand that on a more meaningful level.
Here’s how it happened.
Nine months ago I met someone on Twitter whom I had noticed before but chose not to follow her because something felt “off.”
Call it intuition.
Weeks later she followed me and her first communication to me was that I was wrong about something. Being my forgiving and sometimes naive self I followed her and let it go knowing we all have our own perceptions.
On one of our early phone calls an intriguing idea presented itself to us. She wanted to get started right away and I was still in the middle of producing my Spiritual Grid Manifestation DVD and told her I was definitely interested and would let her know when I was ready.
Deep down my intuition was speaking to me and I knew that I could not work with her while creating my DVD. Months later I wrote her and suggested we create that program. It just felt like the right time.
We began a series of phone calls and became much clearer about the series. Being the consummate businesswoman I am I suggested a written agreement and even though she ignored me I allowed myself to get deeper into the project and kept “giving in.”
After a short time I realized she saw me as her “admin” when she frequently ordered me to take actions at a moments notice! Again I suggested we create an agreement about responsibilities and again it was ignored. Yet I kept going because the project was still intriguing to me.
I kept doing everything she asked and then got creative and practiced some videos in the park to promote the series. That same weekend she began accusing me of not working and my response was to stop working!
Funny how the mind works. She proceeded to send me a series of accusatory emails and then I began experiencing excrutiating pain and landed in the emergency room and then I could not work! Her emails kept coming even though she knew I was not well for several days. She even told me she did not care I was sick!
That is when I got it! It was the final straw and I told her I did not want to play with her anymore. It just hurt too much.
That very same day I had a series of phone calls with other people and the theme that kept appearing was authenticity!
My first clues of a potential conflict came many months before.
Once I was able to recognize the truth I wrote a letter to the list we created and told everyone that in order to be authentic I had to exit.
Fortunately I also now understand the meaning of authenticity on a deeper level. My authenticity has nothing to do with doing everything on my own as I once thought.
My authenticity has everything to do with staying true to my core beliefs and principles and only allowing people in my life that are serving me. It also has to feel good! When I listen to and take action on my intuition I am being authentic. The experience itself served me well and once I was able to rise above it and receive the learning I was complete.
Authenticity is certainly the theme of the moment for me. What about you?
What areas of your life are causing you to ponder? What have you been putting up with?
Let me know how this has served you.
Well it is time to take action on my new inspirations! But first I think it is time for some dark chocolate. Now that’s being authentic!
iLoveU !
Wendy
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I am not sure how I just found this article that Kate Loving Shank wrote about after she and Joan interviewed me but I was delighted to see it!
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Wendy G. Young’s Spiritual Grid
Wendy G. Young was on our radio show 6/16/0: Moon, Moo and You: The Collective Wisdom. She is the creator of the Spiritual Grid Manifestation.
The Spiritual Grid Manifestation “came to” Wendy in 1987, when she observed an experience at a Tony Robbins event, which reminded me of two people coming into resonance with the other. She observed two people sitting across from each other and they were able to read each other’s emotions.
A few years later, Wendy got involved in the Ergonomics business and became fascinated by the way people held their bodies. She saw that people held emotion in their posture. This evolved to a concept she began to call “Spiritual Ergonomics” whereby if you can hold emotion, you can also release emotion, through the body.
This concept evolved to the idea that the body is a manifestation tool.
She told Joe Vitale about this idea, and even he thought it was different!
For instance, imagine your desire somewhere in your body. Align your posture in as upright a position as possible. This will change your emotional state to one of more positivity.
Wendy says that when your postural alignment mirrors your emotional alignment, then you are in alignment with the Universe.
When a person comes into a room, you can immediately tell that person’s emotional state. 78% of all communication is nonverbal. A person’s words may not match how they are holding their body. A good example of this is in a job interview. A person is telling you how great they are, yet they are slouched in front of you in their chair.
The intelligent thing to do is not to hire that person assuming the Interviewer is able to read body language.
Wendy just did a series of classes on the Spiritual Grid Manifestation technique and has successfully captured her message on video.
The body needs to be treated as a spiritual temple. It needs good food, plenty of water, balance and moderation in all things. It needs plenty of rest. It needs quiet and exercise and a regimen that allows the body to stay flexible.
Eliminate stress levels from your body and from your life.
We discussed how all illness is directly related to stress. And illness is a great teacher. By reflecting on the body, stress levels and dis-ease within the body, we are motivated to take responsibility for why we have been taken down by imbalances.
The Spiritual Grid flows through you, me, the earth and through all the other dimensions. It appears as a graph to some, but the real energy of the grid is impersonal, unconditional love. A manifestation becomes a wrinkle in the grid. The more we focus on what we want, pay close attention to the manifestation without judgement of whether it is good or bad.
Feel good, no matter what.
Joan and I decided that every guest on our show holds a piece to the larger puzzle called the mystery of life. We said that there is a huge revolution going on and that after a while, all of us will speak the same language.
Mostly this language will be nonverbal. The Spiritual Grid is not THE answer, but it is part of the hologram.
Thank you Wendy, for agreeing to be guest on our show. It was enlightening.
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Kate Loving Shenk is a writer, healer, musician and the creator of the e-book called “Transform Your Nursing Career and Discover Your Calling and Destiny.” Click here to order the e-book:
http://www.nursingcareertransformation.com
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Feel Good Manifesting By Sending Clutter Away!
Last Sunday morning I woke up early and the first thing on my mind was decluttering my desk. It had all sort of piles on it for weeks and finally it was time to get organized.
So off to make my morning cup of Yerba Matte and then I went to my office and scooped up everything that was sitting on it and brought it to the den where I had already started my DVD.
I figured I had not watched any movies in a while so I decided to get caught up on movies and organization at the same time. Talk about multi-tasking!
In less than one hour I had organized all the papers that had been sitting on my desk.
Now I was motivated and ran back into my office and gathered the several inch stack sitting on the floor and planted my bottom on the den floor again. I was feeling really motivated to complete this task not having any idea of the reward I would receive at the end!
After working on that stack for a while I decided to get the IKEA rolling cart that I had not looked at in ages. I wanted to get an idea of how much room I would have in my cart for new files so I began pulling and purging everything that I could.
Then one by one I continued going through my stack and labeling new folders. This purging and filing took me all day and I felt so good.
That was the reward…Feeling Good…for no reason!
I kept walking back to my office to look at my desk and the floor. Being a creative type does not mean that I am not organized. It just means that I have so many things going on at times that I do not take the time to create new files or to stay organized.
One of the teaching in Law of Attraction is all about feeling good. If I can feel this good by keeping my desk clean and my office organized then it is number 1 in my book!
Give it a try. Just start with your desk or even just one side of your desk. De-cluttering your desk and office really does de-clutter your mind.
When your mind is free it can create anything you desire!
How Do You Create Happiness for Others?
You don’t!
I remember as a child always doing everything I could to make my mother happy. I was just a kid so how would I know that it was not my responsibility to make my mother happy?
Even though I was quite disconnected from my source those early years I would always look up and ask how I could make her happy and the answer never came.
So I did everything she asked me…and not always without complaining or fighting with her!
I cleaned the house, baby-sat, prepared dinner and washed the dishes thinking that would help.
Fortunately in my early years something inside of me stayed intact.
I knew that my happiness was going to depend on me but how was I going to make that happen? I had no role model in the “happiness” area or even in the “content” area.
I thought it was to go to college and get a good job and make a lot of money. At least that is what my father kept teaching me.
I tried that for a long time. It did not work.
I read a lot of books and took a lot of classes looking for that happiness. I discovered that to find the happiness you have to take a good, close look at the unhappiness.
I did this work long before I knew about energetic release work such as Consciousness Shifting and EFT so it was slow and a very long journey for me. It allowed me to look at myself from every perspective possible…bit by bit by bit.
And I am all the better for it. And there is still more to look at because I continue to evolve and realize I just love it.
When “good” things happen after all the “other” it makes me really appreciate my life in bigger ways then ever possible. Actually I try not to label good vs bad yet the contrast in how you “feel” is so wonderful.
So whatever you or those close to you are going through remember there will be a brighter day. You will be happier. Just set your mind to be happy. Decide to be happy more and more and see the good side of your life even when things don’t seem good.
Find the good. Pretend there is good.
I know it is not easy. I have been there. There are days that I am still there.
Just keep reaching for the happiness and one day it is going to drop out of the sky and you are going to be so HAPPY you are HAPPY!
iLoveU !
Wendy
Creativity The Unseen Force That Changes Your Life
You cannot see it, feel it or touch it.
Creativity is energy and it comes to you in the form of an idea that may the solution to a problem in your life. The idea that flows into your mind has a universal life force built into it.
Creativity is the spark of inspiration that comes to you seemingly out of the blue. It is delivered to you in a flash. It seems like it is coming to you from somewhere outside but in reality it is coming from somewhere deep inside of you.
In this instant you are connected to or tapped in to a force of energy called the universe. You are now in the flow. Take note that this spark of insight came specifically to you for a reason. There might be others that have received the same idea in the same moment but did not take action. Or they may develop the idea independently of you on the other side of the world. It has happened and will happen again
What you do with this idea can be a determining factor in how fast your current situation can improve.
When an idea is delivered to you in a moment of spontaneity it carries with it all the forces of the universe to help produce the idea into reality. So it is of the utmost importance to take immediate action because this energy fuels the desire.
All you must do is take the first step. Once you do the next step will reveal itself to you and as you continue to take these small actions it will become easier and you will begin to trust the process much more.
Over 20 years ago I began to be in touch with this flow of energy and creative insight almost daily. I did not grow up in a house where there was time for creativity so I did not know how to channel these ideas.
There were so many ideas coming to me that I remember looking up and asking it to stop! It did to my delight. Then many years later I allowed it to come back and again it did to my delight!
You were born with this natural ability to be creative.
How are you tapping in and allowing your personal brand of creativity to change your life for the better?
Let me know!
iLoVeU !
Wendy
Wendy G Young
Creator of Spiritual Grid Manifestation™
http://www.spiritualgrid.com/dvd/
Breathe…If You Think You Can’t…
If you think you can’t…..
Breathe
If you think you cannot make it another day or another month
Breathe
If you are wondering how to pay the mortgage or rent
Breathe
If you think you cannot heal
Breathe
If life seems difficult
Breathe
If you do not feel happy
Breathe
If there seems to be no time to play and enjoy life
Breathe
If you feel that you have been wronged in some way
Breathe
If you think that you will lose it all
Breathe
If you have fear running through your body
Breathe
Because breathing brings you into the present
Away from the issues of the past
And away from the fears of the future
The only moment you have is right now
To create…
So continue to breathe in the energy of the universe
To keep you focused in the present
And to fuel your desires and inspired actions
And to stay calm and centered in the now.
Shedding Light On Your Desires
Yesterday I lit a candle to use in a ritual around my desires and the light kept going out!
This was not the first time I had an issue with this particular candle and since it was new I definitely wanted to figure out what I was doing wrong!
I lit the candle a total of four times before I was able to get a good strong flame going.
After the 3rd time I actually studied my technique in candle lighting!
I realized that I was lighting the candle near the tip of the wick and not giving it enough time to travel down and really take. The flame just stayed high on the wick and never had a chance to get strong and robust.
So I lit the candle a 4th time and this time I started at the base. I held the flame from the match there as long as I could to make sure the candle was sufficiently lit.
In that moment my desire was to create a good flame. The match became the light for the candle wick.
It made me think about the idea of shedding light on my desires in a new way.
The light on your desires has to be strong. It has to be rooted in you so clearly that it takes hold of you and drives you to allow it to come into reality.
You must shed light on your desires. Take them out of your head into the light.
Write them down. Look at them. See them appearing in your life.
Keep that fire on your desires strong by focusing on them with detachment and taking inspired actions.
When you send a clear message to the universe and allow them to happen in this way they can manifest much faster.
And that is what you want, right?
If you are talking about what you do not want then turn it around and focus on what you want instead.
Shed all the light you can on your DESIRES! Those unwanted experiences are the contrast.
The contrast is there for a purpose. It is to help you see the light. it is to help your desires come out of the darkness and into the light.
Say thank you to your unwanted experiences as they have been your friend. Bless them and then let them be on their way. Make room for the light. Make room for the
manifestations you so desire.
Go ahead. Get started right now. If this blog has helped you then let me know by commenting and do let me know how those manifestations are coming along!
iloveU
wendy
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