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Law of Attraction – Visualize and Feel Your Desires In Your Bones
Whatever failures or frustrations you may have experienced in your life has little or nothing to do with fate. There is nobody to blame as that just brings more of the same and probably in increased amounts. You create your own fate!
Yes! It’s true!
According to the law of attraction, the areas you place and focus your attention on will grow. So if you worry about what is going on in your life or what may happen to you, the outcome will be exactly what you were worried might happen. If you fear failure of some kind then then that is what you will experience.
The more you worry and the more it turns out to be as you worried it to be the more and more of this you will experience! You will continue to reinforce and continue to experience that which you do not want and your life experiences will be the same.
Create a new kind of circle filled with peace and joy and all that you desire!
Slowly begin to see success and happiness for yourself. More than that imagine what that success and happiness would feel like. Put those feelings in your body. Close your eyes and pretend that you have this great life already! The more you practice the more you will see and believe that it is possible. Begin to focus on the positive and you will even begin to feel better and it can happen faster than you think!
Just begin to shift your thoughts a little at a time. One step at a time…that’s right!
Happiness can be that simple if you let it. Start to picture a happy life in your mind and place all your focus and attention on it. Start to believe that you are meant to experience happiness, success and good fortune in all areas of your life. You have the power within to do this!
Pay attention to your your emotions and feelings in every moment that you can. Raise your awareness about how you are feeling in each moment. Sometimes you may not feel good. That is ok. Let yourself feel all your feelings. If you have to cry then cry. If you want to laugh then laugh. Being here on earth gives the opportunity to experience a myriad of emotions. Just be aware of the fact that the vibes you send out play a big part in creating your life. Your vibes are your emotions.
Claim what you want. Hang out with people that are positive and learn from them. Be optimistic and allow those good fortunes to come to you.
Know that you are always in the perfect place and are always moving forward even when it seems like you are not.
You are here to live the good life!
Believe it! Allow it! Accept it!
iLoVeU !
Wendy
Wendi Friesen, Hypnotic Healing Part 1
I had the wonderful opportunity to attend Pat O’Byan’s UnSeminar 6 in San Antonio this past weekend to hear an array of beyond fabulous speakers such as Joe Vitale, Wendi Friesen, Eric Farewell, Bill Hibbler, Tony Laidig, Lee Collins, Simon Leung and Craig Perrine!
I did not get much sleep that weekend from partying so if I left your name out please forgive me and do let me know!
Plus I met so many new people and reconnected with others such as Chuck Pennignton, Mando Fierro and MJ Schrader! Happy Birthday MJ!
Wendi Friesen gave us a brilliant presentation about being who we really are and using that to market ourselves in videos on YouTube.
She showed us various, hilarious videos that she produced on her own that drive thousands of people to her already popular website! I have been practicing that wonderful french accent in my head Wendi but we will see if I am actually able to get that into something that sounds somewhat audible!
Her presentation will be available in the somewhat near future from Pat O’Bryan! (Pat, I LOVE your newly designed website).
Anyway I went to look at some of Wendi’s videos because she is such a role model. You see I just created my very first physical product and she has produced what seems like hundreds! My product is about healing and manifestation and that is what Wendi is all about in her unique way. So I’m thinking maybe I can actually learn how to market myself in the fun way that Wendi does.
I ran accross this video called Hypnotic Healing, Part 1 and I wanted to share it with you. See it below. Her explanation is first and then the hypnotic part. If you ask me everything about Wendi is hypnotic though 🙂
That was amazing! I am sparkling over that! Check out Wendi’s blog.
Wendi is a really cook chick and I love her name…only she spells it wrong!!
iLoVeU !
Wendy (with a “Y”)
PS. Twenty Twenty and Carol guess what?! I was in class for an entire two days! Ask Mando and MJ! I miss you both 🙂
Trust The Universe It Sees The Big Picture
Last Tuesday, May 19th to be exact I launched my Spiritual Grid Manifestation DVD and it was exactly one year to the day that I sold my previous business. I tried to launch on May 1st because that was my 25th anniversary of being in business. Then I tried to launch on May 10 because that was a big, marker birthday for me.
I was trying to make it happen on one of those days because I thought it would be good to launch on an auspicious day. And it would be!
Only the universe knows what is best and I have always learned to trust. What if everyday was auspicious and we did not feel the need to make it happen the way we think it should or the way others think.
I just decided to let go and when I did the universe stepped in and took over. That is what the universe is here for. It sees the big picture. When we hold onto the way we think our life has to happen we limit ourselves.
In fact I was planning on telling the entire world that day about my launch. I have all sorts of emails lists all over the place and was going to sit in my chair for hours just announcing to everyone what I had just accomplished.
Then my marketing consultant Susan Rosenthal called me and wanted to know how I was going to celebrate. I told her that I did not have any thoughts or plans to celebrate at all.
She suggested that I take the time to celebrate what I had just accomplished. Susan told me that most people do not make it as far as I have. I mean I sold a business a year before and now I had created my first physical product, my life’s work to help others create the kind of lived they have only dreamed about until now.
She suggested that I take time off that day and go to the woods and thank the universe for what it has given to me. She said that the universe gave me this technology to practice and refine over several years and now it was time to say thank you. Susan also suggested that ask the universe what else it wants from me and that I ask how it wants me to market the DVD. Since the universe gave me the technology it will also give me the marketing plan.
Yes! I get that!
It was perfect because I had filmed part of the DVD in the woods! So that is where I went.
I decided to hike in the trails and this was the first time that I hiked on my own. At first I felt scared. I was afraid to begin the trail because I was afraid I would not be able to find my way out. A few tears even begain shedding and that was so interesting to me.
Being the spiritual person I am I seem to always look at the meaning of everything that I am doing and how it all relates.
So what I saw was that this hike in the woods was a metaphor for my launch. I had never hiked the trails on my own and I had never created and launched a DVD on my own!
There were so many twists and turns in the woods. Do I go this way or that way I kept asking myself. I wondered if I would really be able to find my out safely. As I walked deeper and deeper into the woods and at some point I just let go. It trusted. I realized that I would find my way out of there one way or another.
I realized that I would find my way in the marketing of my new DVD and the creation and production of other products! In fact, when I gave Dr. Joe Vitale a copy of my DVD the other day in Wimberley he gave me an idea for a series of DVD’s!
And this morning on my walk around the park I had another idea. So yes I will always find my way.
And even though I was not sure how to find my way out of the trails on my own when I was really ready I asked a few cute men on their bikes and they simply showed me the way 🙂
So trust the process. Trust in the universe. There will always be someone there to guide you!
iLoveU !
Wendy
The Manifestation and Creation of a Law of Attraction DVD
I did not start out desiring a DVD of my very own. It just happened..well sort of like that!
For many years I have been refining what I thought was a simple manifestation technique. After selling my ergonomic business May 2008 and taking the summer off to rest I was all ready to write my book in September of 2008. I hired an assistant and together we organized my house and garage and I was all set to begin.
oops..Mother Nature had another idea! Hurricane Ike blew through town and I attempted to locate some electricity in a quiet, relaxing place in Houston to write my book. No such luck!
Sometimes in life we must learn to let go to allow for growth and new experiences. The Hurricane Ike aftermath was one of the best and most difficult experiences I ever had. The good that came out of it allowed me to clean out my mind of all that was not working anymore. It brought up emotions that were long buried so that I could release them.
Once my mind was freed up of these old ways of being (and even of a couple of people) I was able to start seeing my “technique” more clearly. I started to wonder how some of my ideas and techniques were related and wondered who I could talk to about it.
Then I read an email from Dr. Joe Vitale about his Rolls Royce Mastermind and my body said “YES!” while my brain said “What? Are you crazy?” I admit. It was expensive. But I did it anyway and what an experience it was! Luckily the other mastermind expert was Pat O’Bryan!
Within the first 10 minutes in the Rolls Royce Phantom Joe helped me see that I did not create a technique. I had actually created a manifestation technology instead! It made sense as I had created a body of information about this idea over the years. So that was how my ideas were all related. They were part of the same technology!
Then it was Pat who looked at me and wanted to know if I needed any accountability…i.e…Did I need any help to make it happen? Well all I knew was that I did not spend all that money on the Rolls Royce Mastermind to not take action!!
Thank you Joe and Pat (and it was great to see both of you at Unseminar 6 this past weekend)!
That is when the fun began. I decided to take Joe and Pat’s advice to lead a weekend workshop and videotape it. This task seemed easy enough for me to handle.
It was a lot more difficult than I thought though!
First you must make sure to hire the right videograoher…one that fits your personality and is able to share in your vision and has the technical expertise for your project. Ok so my second videographer fit that order!
I tried to make it work with the first one because I had already paid her a nice sum of money but after many shooting errors and untimely delivery of the video on disk I finally let it go and hired someone even more perfect.
We did the necessary reshooting in a nearby park and together we edited the video in ways that kept expanding and changing. I am very pleased with the DVD and believe you will be too!
What is the DVD about you might be wondering?
With more than 20 years of working with clients I refined and integrated everything I know about the body, spirituality and the law of attraction to create a multi-layered, advanced manifestation technology.
The original technique that was the beginning of the technology employs the BODY as a MANIFESATION TOOL..It is really cool!
I just launched it 9 days ago on May 19, 2009!
The entire technology is unlike anything else on the market and I am very excited to present it to you: www.spiritualgrid.com
Many bonuses come with the purchase of the DVD. Check it out!
iLoVeU !
Wendy
The Planning of My First LIVE Law of Attraction Event
This past Saturday, Feb 21, 2009 I led my first public workshop about the Spiritual Grid Manifestation Technology which I have been developing over the past few years.
In attendance were the best people I could have imagined as they were extremely supportive of me.
I had the sheer guts not only teach this “out there” material in the public but I also had it professionally videotaped! So there were all sorts of technical issues that occurred that I did not plan for!!
The 60 minute tapes only lasted 40 minutes so we took more breaks. I fought the idea of wearing makeup only having to succumb to it in the end. I do admit that after seeing some of the video it is a good idea to wear makeup. My fear was that everyone would be able to actually see the makeup but all they really see is me! Without the makeup I would looked washed out so thank you to all who helped with that. I DID do my own hair though and all we had to do was brush it later in the day!
The person who was going to help assist me for the workshop was not able to make it so I was managing it all on my own. It was all perfect because I was given the opportunity to see what was necessary for next time.
There is sooo much more to consider when you are planning a LIVE event!
Here are some things I would HIGHLY recommend to anyone that is going to present a LIVE workshop:
1: Make a List of What is Necessary & Include the following:
Hire an assistant who is available to help you the entire week before your event and to attend your event. Have assistant take notes and make all the lists of things that must get done.
I suggest professional help with hair and makeup especially if you are planning to videotape your event. You will want help with lunch, handouts, binders, preparing space, nametags, checking in attendees, bringing materials to space, arranging chairs and tables, snacks, drinks, packing up at the end of the day and much more. Start planning in advance and keep a list of all that must be done. Include your assistant in every bit of the planning.
The only thing you want to be doing is preparing yourself and your material for the workshop!
2: Take Care of YOU!
Rest your body the week before your workshop. Get a massage. Get plenty of sleep. Exercise. Stretch. Make sure you eat regular and healthy meals and drink plenty of water. All of this will help you prepare your mind and body for the big day!
3: Create a Workshop Schedule
Have a general idea of what you will be speaking about and when. It is possible that you might change the schedule but having this will be a big help! Your assistant can help with this! Be sure to include plenty of rest breaks so that your attendees can be at their best. I provided a healthy array of snacks from my favorite store..If you can guess which store then tweet me at @wendygyoung. The first one who guesses correctly will win an iLoveU t-shirt from me. Yes! I will pack it and ship it myself!!
4: Meet with Vendors:
If you plan to videotape your event be sure to meet with potential videographers to get a feel for who they are. Ask for references and check them out. Do not pay for everything in advance. Give them a deposit and then pay them in increments along the way. Pay them after they have shot the video and given you the raw video. Then pay them in full only after you have received the final edited video unless you are editing on your own. Edit on your own only if you know how. You want to get your product out there in reasonable amount of time after you present.
Be sure to tour several meeting spaces before you make your decision. Consider the layout of the room and the additional services offered. Do they provide hot water for tea, bottled water and snacks? This is essential as your workshop participants must have something to drink during the day if you want them to have sustainable energy to listen to your presentation.
If you are planning an event do let me know and feel free to add any of your event planning ideas to this blog.
Happy Planning!
iLoveU!
Wendy
Social Networking Etiquette Coffee Talk
This my first blog where I have the opportunity to rant and rave and I am so excited!!
Earlier I tweeted from my Blackberry that I was at Whole Foods drinking a cup of coffee and I received a tweet from someone —
“@WendyGYoung do you realize how bad coffee is for you?”
Wow!! This person does not even know me. I cannot recall ever receiving a tweet from this person to begin developing a relationship. What a way to create a first impression!
That was interesting social etiquette in my humble opinion but what do I know? I am not a social networking expert. But I do believe I have good social etiquette. If I was wanting to make a good impression and convince someone that I knew what was correct for them I would make sure I knew more about them first!
Like did she realize that I do not drink coffee every day and that when I do it is usually organic? Or that I have started practically each day since 1997 drinking Yerba Matte tea? Or that I drink green tea and those yummy green drinks?
Or that when I travel I look for the first health food store I can..usually Whole Foods? Or that I read all the labels on the packaged food? Or that most of my food is fresh?
And does she realize that I have never taken a puff on a cigarette and that I VERY rarely drink?!!!
Or that I have been an avid health nut for years eating plenty of veggies and fruits and balance my meals with those fun happy fats and protein, including lots of fish with all those good for you Omega’s?
And does she know that for years I have consulted with a Phd nutritionist to make sure I am on the right track?
Nope. She does not know any of those things!
Because she did not take the time to KNOW me.
If she did she would know what I am about.
And there is so much more to know about me regarding everything! It certainly will not fit in one blog entry and some of it is for me only!
She would not know that I believe that my healthy belief system keeps me healthy even if I every so often decide to even drink a cup of non-organic coffee.
See I knew this was an opportunity to let this bounce off of me and create my first rant and rave blog entry.
So thank you for your coffee comment.
I am now done!
My mom’s favorite expression: Goodbye and goodluck 🙂
iLoveU
Wendy
PS. Before I even finished this blog I received another reply from someone who read my playful response that “Love is All There Is” where I referred to a Beatles song and she wrote back to tell me I was wrong. Case dismissed.
Faces of Love
A few days ago I had the pleausure of being interviewed about the topic of LOVE! THAT was really interesting to me because what do I really know about the topic of LOVE?
There are so many kinds of love…or are there? I guess it really depends on your perspective.
I mean there is romantic love. It does not matter who you are… I am sure romantic love has affected you. If you are like most romantic love has made your heart soar and it may have felt crushed a time or two. How much in control are we when it comes to this type of love? Hm, I wonder…
I believe the stronger the love we have for ourselves the better the relationship. And when the relationship with another is non-existant it is the love for ourselves that really counts. We cannot receive love from others unless we first give it to ourselves. That can be tricky.
Yesterday on Valentine’s Day my brother and sister-in-law renewed their marriage vows after 5 years. It was so wonderful to see how happy and in love they are. Does it mean that it is all perfect? No but they are committed to each other
What about love for your immediate family? Your siblings, children, parents? Sometimes the key here is “Do you like them?!” Too often the hurts in our immediate family causes pain that can last an entire lifetime. I have certainly had my experiences with this!
On a deep level you love them but cannot seem to get along. Families are blessed with people of all shapes, perceptions, ideas and this can create challenges. How do you handle it when love goes wrong in your family?
Then there is the love of friends, teachers, students, pets. They all seem like a different kind of love but love is love, right?
Did you know that when your heart expresses love towards another you are expressing love towards yourself. It is not possible to be expressing love for another without feeling it inside of your heart.
Then there is the vibration of love. David Hawkins speaks about this in his book Power Vs Force. It takes only a small group of people vibrating at the frequency of love to help raise the vibration of thousands! So here we are talking about the healing power of love.
What an opportunity for me to talk about my iLoveU image located on this blog. This is a Ho’oponopono healing design. If you meditate on it you will feel a shift in your body. Funny as I was typing this I was visualizing this design and felt a shiver fun through my body as just the mere vision of the design in your head has healing power.
I know you may be wondering what in the world I am talking about. Well soon i will be sharing more about my iLoveU design: how it was created and how to use its healing powers in the areas of money, business, relationships and whatever else you want healing in.
So I am wondering, what can you do today in the way of love?
Looking forward to hearing from you!
iLoveU !
Wendy
Your Body is Your Manifestation Tool
Ok I have said it!
Your Body is Your Manifestation Tool!
You heard it from me Wendy G Young, today, Feb 10, 2009.
What in the world are you talking about Wendy you might be asking?? Right?
Well several few years ago I had an inkling I was going to create “something.” I founded an ergonomic business in ’91 and until I sold it in 2008 I was shipping products all over the world and had consulted in many large corporations. After some painful twists and turns in the corporate arena I began feeling something newer and bigger on the way…a more expanded version of me.
As this corporate upheaval in my life was taking place I immersed myself into a deeper practice of the Law of Attraction and realized that this technology I created is a blend of my 17 years of work as an ergonomist and my 25 years of the study and practice of spirituality and the Law of Attraction.
One day when I was interviewed on a radio show I began referring to the term “Spiritual Ergonomics.” I said “What message do you want your posture to send to the world?” At the time I realized that this had something to do with the relationship between postures and emotion yet I still had no idea what the final outcome would be (LOL – Is there really ever a final outcome?)
Over a period of time I created a body of writing and exercises around this intriguing concept that had been brewing inside of me for years! Then in 2006 a technique began revealing itself to me. As I practiced and focused on this technique I continued to receive inspiration and information that refined the techniqie and explained how and why it works.
After discovering Ho’oponopono an ancient Hawaiian Healing Technique I created iLoveU Ho’oponopono™ out of inspiration. The iLoveU design on this page is the symbol of this technology and part of the overall system I call the Spiritual Grid™ Manifestation Technology™.
This Spiritual Grid™ Manifestation Technology™ is based upon these six (6) premises:
1. The body is a manifestation tool. We manifested our body to be in this life. The universe works through us and co-created our body with us so that we can use it as a tool to co-create our Divine inspirations. This technology connects us to our body.
2. We co-created planet earth, the largest “physical” manifestation in our environment with the Divine to support us in manifesting our desires. Living on earth is a symbol of this necessary connection at this time. When we are fully connected to earth we are supported in achieving our desires more quickly. This technology connects and grounds us to the earth.
3. There is a direct connection between our body posture and our emotions. If we stand tall with a sad face we feel ridiculous and if we hunch over and smile we also feel silly and incongruent. A key component of manifestation in LOA teachings is about being in emotional alignment. This technology aligns you physically and emotionally and creates congruency with the universe. Our message to the universe must be congruent to manifest our desires. This technology creates this congruence.
4. There is an energetic grid. We are an extension of this grid or source. We are one with source and our good comes only from this source. We must know it in our bones that we are source. This technology creates a stronger connection to this source.
5. We must embody our desire in a clear and focused way. This technology fully embodies our desires in various realms and energizes them to speed up manifestation.
6. We must have supporting beliefs to manifest our desires. This technology helps clear negative energies that may be getting in the way and creates new postive beliefs and intentions.
I discussed this technology with Dr. Joe Vitale a few months ago as a participant in his Rolls Royce Mastermind. His comment to me in the first 20 minutes of our mastermind: ““Your approach of Using the Body As a Manifestation Tool is truly different and very unique.”
Yes! It is different. It shifts you from a place of doing to being. It speeds up the manifestation of your desires.
Recently on Meet the Press it was discussed that the economic stimulus package was designed to help boost confidence in the minds of the American people. True confidence comes from inside not from something outside of ourselves.
This technology is your inner confidence booster!
I will be presenting a LIVE workshop on Sat, Feb 21st. If you feel called to attend this live event then I welcome you! This is the first time this technology is being presented and the price is the lowest it will ever be!
To find out more register for the introductory audio up and to the right (directly under the picture of Dr. Joe Vitale and myself!)
Feel free to tell your friends…especially if they live in Houston or anywhere in Texas 🙂
iLoveU!!
Wendy
Who are you BEING in your Perfect Place in Time?
This past weekend I was on my Facebook page and received an IM from the other side of the world from a man that thought I could help him. He had no idea it was 6:21am on Saturday morning and that I had practically just opened my sleepy eyes but I chatted with him for a bit.
He told me that relationships are very difficult for him. I could feel his sadness. He told me that someone like me would not know anything like that. Yet I explained to him that I had been where he is now and with practice relationships have become much easier for me over the years. Sometime though knowing a tool can make all the difference in the world.
It appeared that he was focusing on exactly what he did not want so of course that is going to bring him even more of what he does not want and more heartache. Without getting into all the implications of the Law of Attraction I suggested that he simply take some time that day and write down exactly what he wanted in a romantic relationship. He said that he would do that so I could feel that he was open to hearing some advice.
Then I felt this intuitive zing to suggest that he begin loving himself more. I had no idea how he was going to react or respond to this as I know nothing about him. Yet I felt the nudge to mention this because if we desire someone to love us then we must love ourselves first. We must BE that loving person we want to attract in our life.
His response….”I am going to take a bold step!” That is what he said. It did not take much time at all. He made a decision based upon a simple suggestion.
What a great way to start my day!
A few hours later I was in a conversation with a Twitter friend and the idea of beingness came up. She had mentioned that she would like to be in a continual place of being instead of the bouts of beingness that she currently experiences.
I told her that all was in perfect order and that those bouts of being are the perfect place for her to begin moving forward towards the place she wants to be…
And here is her response… “Everything is perfect for me to be in that state of beingness I want right now.”
Both of them are very fast learners! Yeah for them and yeah for the rest of the world! The more we love ourselves and stay in that place of beingness the more we inspire those around us to take these same actions. It is the ripple effect.
This is a perfect time to practice as Barack Obama begins his term in office tomorrow. We are all in this together and it begins with ME!
What are some ways that you display love towards yourself?
Tell me about your bouts of beingness.
Look forward to your comments on my blog!
iLoveU !!
Wendy
Wendy B Young
Being Authentic and Gratitude For Big Changes
So much has happened since I began this blog in 2007 and it just never seemed to be the right time to write! I always had ideas about what to write about but I just realized (for me) it is not about ideas necessarily but about feeling inspired to write. It is also about writing what I am inspired by!
I decided to ask the universe what it wanted me to write about and the answer I received was about “Being Authentic.” That’s easy, right?
So just this past week I launched my new blog..I call it a soft launch! So once I feel like I really know what I am doing I will do the real launch. But really it is all real. Maybe I called it the soft launch because I was not fully committed to my new project.
Actually if I am being really truthful…this is all about my new life! My new business. The new me. New friends. New experiences. Maybe I will even attract a new boyfriend in the process!
You see for the past several years I have been undergoing a huge transformation and shift in consciousness. There have been many people who have been by my side watching and helping me move into my new paradigm. It has not been easy. I almost lost my shirt more than once. I blamed a very large customer for not keeping their end of the deal on a 1,000,000 contract. Perhaps more on that at some point.
What is most important is that when it was all said and done I am in the deepest of gratitude for their action.
When you look at this from a larger perspective, by NOT keeping their end of the deal they actually DID. At an unconsciousness level we made this agreement so that I could undergo the kinds of inner changes I have.
If it was not for them I would definitely not be doing what I am right now. I would still be bowing down to a multi-billion dollar corporate giant and DOING all that they commanded me to do. You would think I had a job with them!!
Instead I am now just BEING and take INSPIRED ACTION which is more FUN and keeps me in my PASSION!
I now thank them for giving me the opportunity to completely change everything about my life.
That is what this blog is going to be about…
Changing Your Life…Shifting Inside to Create a New Outside of YOU…Being Happy..Being Prosperous…Being Willing to Take Inspired Actions…Letting Go…Loving Yourself… Faith…Knowing Who You are …Becoming Who You are Meant to BE!…so much more!
Are you in? Great! I look forward to having conversation with you and helping you create the life of your dreams!
If you want a Quick Start then sign up for my “Intro to my Spiritual Grid Manifestation Technology” above. My LIVE workshop is approaching very soon!
I guarantee that if you attend my workshop it will TOTALLY change how you look at your entire life!!
iLoveU !
Wendy
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