How Do You Create Happiness for Others?

You don’t!

I remember as a child always doing everything I could to make my mother happy. I was just a kid so how would I know that it was not my responsibility to make my mother happy?

Even though I was quite disconnected from my source those early years I would always look up and ask how I could make her happy and the answer never came.

So I did everything she asked me…and not always without complaining or fighting with her!

I cleaned the house, baby-sat, prepared dinner and washed the dishes thinking that would help.

Fortunately in my early years something inside of me stayed intact.

I knew that my happiness was going to depend on me but how was I going to make that happen? I had no role model in the “happiness” area or even in the “content” area.

I thought it was to go to college and get a good job and make a lot of money. At least that is what my father kept teaching me.

I tried that for a long time. It did not work.

I read a lot of books and took a lot of classes looking for that happiness. I discovered that to find the happiness you have to take a good, close look at the unhappiness.

I did this work long before I knew about energetic release work such as Consciousness Shifting and EFT so it was slow and a very long journey for me. It allowed me to look at myself from every perspective possible…bit by bit by bit.

And I am all the better for it. And there is still more to look at because I continue to evolve and realize I just love it.

When “good” things happen after all the “other” it makes me really appreciate my life in bigger ways then ever possible. Actually I try not to label good vs bad yet the contrast in how you “feel” is so wonderful.

So whatever you or those close to you are going through remember there will be a brighter day. You will be happier. Just set your mind to be happy. Decide to be happy more and more and see the good side of your life even when things don’t seem good.

Find the good. Pretend there is good.

I know it is not easy. I have been there. There are days that I am still there.

Just keep reaching for the happiness and one day it is going to drop out of the sky and you are going to be so HAPPY you are HAPPY!

iLoveU !

Wendy